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Message started by JACKSPADE on 2nd Apr, 2011 at 11:19am

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by JACKSPADE on 2nd Apr, 2011 at 11:19am
If you want to find a wife you gotta have income.  If you are nearly 60 are you looking for a wife close to your age or are you expecting someone younger?  I'm curious.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by JSEA on 2nd Apr, 2011 at 11:28am
Sounds to me like you should see a doctor, you keep posting the same thing about wanting to find a young (20-25 years old? seriously?) Lao wife.

Guess what, if you're 60 years old, and rotund, odds are any young girl is just gonna be interested in your money, and once they get fed up with "dating", or being married to an old dude they'll just take off. Even if they don't take off, they'll probably have a Lao boyfriend they don't tell you about anyway.

Your best bet is probably a 50 year old Lao lady. You might be able to find one, but I'm not sure how many of them are looking for a farang husband, or how many are even single. Since it seems to be an even bigger issue in Laos than in the states that people get married quickly.

Just my 2 cents, since you keep posting the same thing over, and over again.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by JACKSPADE on 2nd Apr, 2011 at 11:44am
Shows how much I've been active in the forum lol.  I didn't know he wanted 20-25 year olds.  It's not going to work out.  ChristianBachelor  you say you are a religious man...At your age reading the Bible, and having a relationship with God isn't that enough?  If you are trying to find someone younger you have serious mental illness and you need to see a doctor.  Otherwise, find someone close to you age and I'm sure plenty out there...you will stand a chance and it'll last longer.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by JSEA on 2nd Apr, 2011 at 11:46am

OMD wrote on 2nd Apr, 2011 at 11:19am:
If you want to find a wife you gotta have income.  If you are nearly 60 are you looking for a wife close to your age or are you expecting someone younger?  I'm curious.


I think it was his first post, but he said he was looking for a girl in the 20-25 age range. Which seems pretty phuckin outrageous to me.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by longhang on 2nd Apr, 2011 at 5:00pm
20-25,  who in their right mind would want to go to laos or thailand and find a women that OLD lolz ahahahaha in these two countries you can gets girls for much younger. of course its up to you. and it dont matter if your 60 cuz when i'm 60 i want something nice and tender too hahaha

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by ChristianBachelor on 2nd Apr, 2011 at 5:10pm
long .. yes .. I am looking to stop talking so much around people who don't live in asia. I think that is why we see so many asians sit and smile when foreigners come by.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by JSEA on 2nd Apr, 2011 at 5:31pm
I live here...I think Admin and Old Man are the only other people who actually live in SE Asia right now. Also, what's the connection between people who don't live in Asia, and Asians smiling?? Is that some kind of hooker code?

For what it's worth, I don't care if people pay for sex, it just seems foolish to expect to find a 20-25 year old girl who's actually gonna love someone close to 60 rather than their money.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by JACKSPADE on 2nd Apr, 2011 at 7:11pm

wrote on 2nd Apr, 2011 at 5:10pm:
long .. yes .. I am looking to stop talking so much around people who don't live in asia. I think that is why we see so many asians sit and smile when foreigners come by.



Are you kidding me?  You are nearly 60 years of age and not acting your age. You seriously need psychiatric help before it's too late.  I'm going to say it, you are old with a twisted mind.  You say you want women 20-25 that's all you care about and if opportunity even allows anyone younger I think you'd take advantage of it.  I don't trust you and neither should society.  In my view, you sir are sick in the head Pedophile or Pedophile to be.  I'm surprised you are not banned from this forum.  Christian my a.s.s.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by JSEA on 2nd Apr, 2011 at 7:53pm
I dunno about being a pedo, I assume 20-25 year old chicks are just as hot when someone is 60 as when they are....20-35 or whatever. But expecting a 20 year old girl to honestly love you when you're 60 is just foolish. Better to move to Pattaya and pay for cheap bar girls to spend the day with you (if it's really not a sex thing). They'd probably welcome the extra money and free meals during the day.  ;D

ChristianBachelor: You gotta realize no girl is gonna love you for "who you are" when there's a 35+ year age gap. Sounds to me like you're a lonely dude, and should really talk to someone (preferably a professional shrink, *not* a priest).

I'm in my mid 20s and even I realize a lot of the girls here in Thailand are just interested in me because they think I have money (joke's on them since I have more student loans than what they probably make in a few years).

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by JACKSPADE on 2nd Apr, 2011 at 8:06pm

JSEA wrote on 2nd Apr, 2011 at 7:53pm:
I dunno about being a pedo, I assume 20-25 year old chicks are just as hot when someone is 60 as when they are....20-35 or whatever. But expecting a 20 year old girl to honestly love you when you're 60 is just foolish. Better to move to Pattaya and pay for cheap bar girls to spend the day with you (if it's really not a sex thing). They'd probably welcome the extra money and free meals during the day.  ;D

ChristianBachelor: You gotta realize no girl is gonna love you for "who you are" when there's a 35+ year age gap. Sounds to me like you're a lonely dude, and should really talk to someone (preferably a professional shrink, *not* a priest).

I'm in my mid 20s and even I realize a lot of the girls here in Thailand are just interested in me because they think I have money (joke's on them since I have more student loans than what they probably make in a few years).


Not once has he mentioned about being okay with someone his age.  That's all he's interested in someone young nothing more nothing less.  The obsession is what's going to land him in his grave.  Religion is not going to save him.  

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by JSEA on 2nd Apr, 2011 at 8:49pm
That's true. I kinda figured he was just off his meds. A lot of farang end up really falling in love with young Thai chicks who are just in it for the money though. Enough that theres a term "phuket swan dive" or maybe "pattaya swan dive" because of all the dudes killing themselves after their girl runs off with all their money.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by Lao Democratic on 2nd Apr, 2011 at 8:57pm
Maybe this ChristianBachelor guy just trying to spam LP forum. But money talk you can marry any young women in Asia if you have money. Some women want better life and out of poverty.
:o

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by Lao Democratic on 2nd Apr, 2011 at 8:59pm
Maybe it better for a 60 yrs old man to marry a 25 yrs old women. Then just playing around and sleep with her. It's up to the women too.
:D

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by JSEA on 2nd Apr, 2011 at 9:36pm
Yeah, but he's said many times that he wants a young wife to love, and to love him back. Specifically said he wasn't in it for sex.

All I'm saying is that is crazy talk. If you're 60 and want a 20 year old, better be ready to spend some $$$.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by longhang on 2nd Apr, 2011 at 10:30pm
my self i would not go to laos or thailand to find only love. but there are stories of it happening. we cant say that he cant find love because you never know. however the chance of him finding it is little i have to admit but if he has faith i'm sure it will happen. love doesn't mean its going to come out of a fine looking lao or thailand women. it could come out of a chubby lao lady lolz know what i mean. when you want to find love you should be optimist and most important open minded. its probably true that good looking lao and thai girls are there for our entertainment purposes most of the time. however i think that if he looks for love i dont see why he cant find it assuming he's open minded.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by Lao Pride Administrator on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 12:40am
Sorry folks, but ChristianBachelor is a genuine nice guy once you get to know him. He loves Laos just as much as you all do, and it has been brought to my attention he doesn't like to have bricks thrown at him.

Therefore, I kindly ask that everyone make him feel warm and welcome and be part of our Lao Pride community. Thanks.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by Lao Democratic on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 1:48am
Welcome to LP forum ChristianBachelor. I was pretty cool with him, but other does threw a jab or 2 at him. I'm nice to everybody.
;) :o

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by Lao Democratic on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 1:52am
Nothing is wrong with that if someone want young wife. As long as she is over 18 year old, love and willing to marry him.
:o



JSEA wrote on 2nd Apr, 2011 at 9:36pm:
Yeah, but he's said many times that he wants a young wife to love, and to love him back. Specifically said he wasn't in it for sex.

All I'm saying is that is crazy talk. If you're 60 and want a 20 year old, better be ready to spend some $$$.


Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by LaoguySoCal on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 4:21am
I don't think age is different in love. I think if you are not happy with someone, it does not matter he or she younger or older.  It's all about being happy and enjoy each other company.  Not most young and beautiful girls love money........everyone loves money. Just my 2 cents  

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by JACKSPADE on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 4:34am

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 12:40am:
Sorry folks, but ChristianBachelor is a genuine nice guy once you get to know him. He loves Laos just as much as you all do, and it has been brought to my attention he doesn't like to have bricks thrown at him.

Therefore, I kindly ask that everyone make him feel warm and welcome and be part of our Lao Pride community. Thanks.


Anyone can be nice or pretend to be nice on a website or forum.  The concern I have with this guy is his obsession with young girls twice or three times his age that bothers me.  I asked him in regards possibly finding a wife close to his age, he never  responded.  So much for interacting with others in the forum. He's only made 9-12 posts does that make him genuine?  Sorry, but I don't trust him.  Ask Tee or Old Man since they are the oldest.  Let's see if they have a response to this.  If they have 18 year old daughters  that is in love with this guy...do you think they'll be okay with it?  Let's be honest.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by Lao Pride Administrator on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 5:00am
Hugh Hefner is engaged to Crystal Harris, who is 60 years his junior. He still has his plenty of admirers out there.

The guy isn't after anyone's 18 year old daughter. The fact is that 20 - 25 year old girls are considered fully grown adults, and I'm in that age bracket.   :)

At the end of the day, he has the right to date/marrry anyone he wants, so we should just accept who he is and let him live his life.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by JACKSPADE on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 5:22am

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 5:00am:
Hugh Hefner is engaged to Crystal Harris, who is 60 years his junior. He still has his plenty of admirers out there.

The guy isn't after anyone's 18 year old daughter. The fact is that 20 - 25 year old girls are considered fully grown adults, and I'm in that age bracket.   :)

At the end of the day, he has the right to date/marrry anyone he wants, so we should just accept who he is and let him live his life.



Imagine if Hugh Hefner is poor and not very successful businessman, do you think people will admire him then or even cared?  Publicity is what got him there, without it he's a nobody.  

If he wants to live his life the way he want I have no problem with it.  He came in here asking us to to seek advice to hook up with young girls.  I'm sure he said 20-25 but if the law permits anyone younger, I bet you my life's savings he'll jump into it as well.  I've seen a 38 year old former cop proposing to a 13 year old girl (permission from parents) here in the US.   I don't have faith in this guy nor I trust him with children around.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by William Kelley on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 5:39am

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 12:40am:
Sorry folks, but ChristianBachelor is a genuine nice guy once you get to know him. He loves Laos just as much as you all do, and it has been brought to my attention he doesn't like to have bricks thrown at him.

Therefore, I kindly ask that everyone make him feel warm and welcome and be part of our Lao Pride community. Thanks.


@ ChristianBachelor: I am currently married to a wonderful woman who means the world to me, but I was married 2 times before. My first ex-wife is almost 7 years younger than I am. My second was almost 14 years younger. Not too much of an age difference the first time, yet I could tell it was there. The second time was a different story completely. My current wife is only 6 months younger than I am, and even though we come from opposite sides of the planet, with a different language, faith, and culture, we are more akin to think alike than I was with my second wife. Age matters. Don't fool yourself. If you want to be happy, find someone about your age who has similar likes and dislikes. Harmony being the strength and support of all institutions, especially "Marriage." Best of luck.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by Lao Pride Administrator on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 6:07am
People wouldn't care about Hefner, but at the same time, it is still his right.

I'm sure some guys would jump into it as well if there weren't any law, and some have already jumped into it as you mentioned. But at least this guy is staying within the law, so we should give him credit for that.

If we don't know any 20-25 year old ladies, then we don't need to help. But then we shouldn't attack someone who isn't here for trouble, but seeking an "adult" wife.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by ChristianBachelor on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 6:18am

wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 5:39am:

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 12:40am:
Sorry folks, but ChristianBachelor is a genuine nice guy once you get to know him. He loves Laos just as much as you all do, and it has been brought to my attention he doesn't like to have bricks thrown at him.

Therefore, I kindly ask that everyone make him feel warm and welcome and be part of our Lao Pride community. Thanks.


@ ChristianBachelor: I am currently married to a wonderful woman who means the world to me, but I was married 2 times before. My first ex-wife is almost 7 years younger than I am. My second was almost 14 years younger. Not too much of an age difference the first time, yet I could tell it was there. The second time was a different story completely. My current wife is only 6 months younger than I am, and even though we come from opposite sides of the planet, with a different language, faith, and culture, we are more akin to think alike than I was with my second wife. Age matters. Don't fool yourself. If you want to be happy, find someone about your age who has similar likes and dislikes. Harmony being the strength and support of all institutions, especially "Marriage." Best of luck.



Perspectives come from our societies, often times.

One of the things you notice in the Bible is that God never gave old women to His servants on earth.

When God the Father brought about the virgin birth, Mary was 12 (or early 13) when she was given the Christchild to carry via the immaculate conception.

When David grew old a beautiful 16 year old was brought in to lie with David, to keep him warm, without sexual relations.  1 Kings 1:2-4.

The book of Esther is another example how a woman, based upon beauty, was chosen to save God's people.

In our world today, some people, looking to make problems, set themselves out to be God, or even judges.  The day of Judgment will indeed have a judge, but even He, the Judge of all (Romans 8:19-23) does not judge until the appointed time of judgment.  When we make  ourselves out to be judges, we make our selves out to be gods.  If any of us were to be the judges of mankind, there would be no hope for any of us.

I don't understand why some people want to build bon fires and accuse others, but alas, it seems to be a world wide cultural thing.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by William Kelley on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 6:33am
I never accused you of anything. I was just making a point that there is statically a higher rate of separation between couples who have a increasingly higher age differential.

I do not judge, and therefore will not be judged. Do not try to remove the splinter from my eye. Do as you like, I will not condemn you nor encourage you. You are on your own.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by ChristianBachelor on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 6:38am
William, please do not take offense.  I was hurt, and I was  grateful for what you wrote.  MY intent was not to express ungratefulness for your writing.

William, I am not sure that modern day marriage statistics are even fairly acquired.

marriage has become something far less valuable than what it once was.

Most of America's early wives were ordered from Sears Catalogues, when all the men had to see were stick pictures of what they were getting.

Arranged marriages with no "way out" had great success.  When do the observations of age difference begin? what is the test sampling. I question a great deal about the age in which we live.

Perhaps most of us are wrong, and perhaps the answer lies elsewhere, in a great many things.

Thank you for being a man who counts his words.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by Tee on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 6:42am
it's nothing wrong to seek someone to be marry. Seeking some one to love is a good thing,but seeking someone to love base on their age is wrong! As the Old man said ...We have to marry base on
* compatibility
* understanding
* willing to accept each other bad habit that are the first 3 main thing. after married there are more...
* Financial planning
* understand each other family needs
* Work out what is priority needs (holiday,car,boat, kids,house......)

I think JACKSPADE did mean well by telling him off that way..because he doesn't want you to get hurt...

ChristianBachelor now a day, Most 35 to 45 women is look as young as the women in their 25. Especially in Asia... maybe that is the age group you should concentrate on....We are caring about you, some of our friend here just don't want to see you get hurt! if your are concern for this age group may not be able to have baby for you,I think the medical now a day is so advance. I hope we didn't put you off from finding your future wife!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by ChristianBachelor on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 6:56am
Dear Tee:

In Asia, as well as Christianity and all decent societies, whether a woman has been with a man previously is an important issue.

In some countries, and cultures within Asia, girls marry off  very young.

In many countries, hawks from China, Korea, etc. get them very young and do bad things before they get old enough to establish their new life.

In many countries of Asia, the privileged classes merely close their eyes to other countrymen of assorted cultures.

I don't know the answers, but I know that societies, as they are today, are not solving much.

When a man goes for an older woman, she often has been with other men.

When a man goes with an older woman, she often has children.

When a man goes with an older woman, she is often jaded by past relationships and enters those relationships with baggage.

From the Bible, I remind that Timothy was commissioned to train elders before he, himself, was old enough to be an elder.

Timothy was also commanded to NOT allow anybody look down on his youth, but to study to show himself a workman who did not need to be ashamed.

We are going down to the lowest common denominator far far too often.

We are not to encourage "people swapping" (wives swapping husbands and vice versa).  So many men find a beautiful woman, who is not in original condition (and vice versa), and we want him, or her.   But we do not fight with all of our might to restore her to the love of her youth.  (and vice versa).  We are not to be changing people, we are to find one, and keep that one.  We are not 7-11's of flesh, we are people, who are to be holy and pure.

Usually, women over 30 have already been compromised.

When we find a woman who has left the partner of her youth, we should not lure her towards us, we should do all in our power to restore her to the partner of her youth.

Everything is whacked.  Everything is out of alignment.

Our societies need holiness, godliness, and restoration to fellowship with our God

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by JACKSPADE on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 7:09am

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 6:07am:
People wouldn't care about Hefner, but at the same time, it is still his right.

I'm sure some guys would jump into it as well if there weren't any law, and some have already jumped into it as you mentioned. But at least this guy is staying within the law, so we should give him credit for that.

If we don't know any 20-25 year old ladies, then we don't need to help. But then we shouldn't attack someone who isn't here for trouble, but seeking an "adult" wife.


I was willing to help him earlier, but, he's based all his love on young age...that is a problem.  Look at his past experiences, young age left him.  Isn't that a sign? That is asking for trouble.  What ever happened to just finding love normally like everyone else not based everything on age?  Do I get nervous around people like him, to be honest yes I do.  What gets me most now is his religious preaching to us in regards to justify the means of loving the young in a non-sexual way.  William Kelley tried to support him as well, what happened?  He accused William of judging him.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by JACKSPADE on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 7:16am

wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 6:56am:
Dear Tee:

In Asia, as well as Christianity and all decent societies, whether a woman has been with a man previously is an important issue.

In some countries, and cultures within Asia, girls marry off  very young.

In many countries, hawks from China, Korea, etc. get them very young and do bad things before they get old enough to establish their new life.

In many countries of Asia, the privileged classes merely close their eyes to other countrymen of assorted cultures.

I don't know the answers, but I know that societies, as they are today, are not solving much.

When a man goes for an older woman, she often has been with other men.

When a man goes with an older woman, she often has children.

When a man goes with an older woman, she is often jaded by past relationships and enters those relationships with baggage.

From the Bible, I remind that Timothy was commissioned to train elders before he, himself, was old enough to be an elder.

Timothy was also commanded to NOT allow anybody look down on his youth, but to study to show himself a workman who did not need to be ashamed.

We are going down to the lowest common denominator far far too often.

We are not to encourage "people swapping" (wives swapping husbands and vice versa).  So many men find a beautiful woman, who is not in original condition (and vice versa), and we want him, or her.   But we do not fight with all of our might to restore her to the love of her youth.  (and vice versa).  We are not to be changing people, we are to find one, and keep that one.  We are not 7-11's of flesh, we are people, who are to be holy and pure.

Usually, women over 30 have already been compromised.

When we find a woman who has left the partner of her youth, we should not lure her towards us, we should do all in our power to restore her to the partner of her youth.

Everything is whacked.  Everything is out of alignment.

Our societies need holiness, godliness, and restoration to fellowship with our God


You seriously need to see a psychiatrist.  He/she is the only one that can be able to help you not us or this forum.  Please don't preach in this forum.  I was once a Baptist(Christian).  There's nothing lovable about it.  There's so much violence in this world because of Christianity/Catholicism/Islam.  People are always using it as an excuse to do harm to this world.  Of all the religion, I believe Buddhism is much more peaceful.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by Tee on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 7:35am

OMD wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 7:09am:

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 6:07am:
People wouldn't care about Hefner, but at the same time, it is still his right.

I'm sure some guys would jump into it as well if there weren't any law, and some have already jumped into it as you mentioned. But at least this guy is staying within the law, so we should give him credit for that.

If we don't know any 20-25 year old ladies, then we don't need to help. But then we shouldn't attack someone who isn't here for trouble, but seeking an "adult" wife.


I was willing to help him earlier, but, he's based all his love on young age...that is a problem.  Look at his past experiences, young age left him.  Isn't that a sign? That is asking for trouble.  What ever happened to just finding love normally like everyone else not based everything on age?  Do I get nervous around people like him, to be honest yes I do.  What gets me most now is his religious preaching to us in regards to justify the means of loving the young in a non-sexual way.  William Kelley tried to support him as well, what happened?  He accused William of judging him.


if your are here to peach your religion among us, please don't waste your time! I also don't want to judge your religion is better than mind or mind is better than you.   This is very personal and it is my choice...not your.....Please go away...to peach somewhere else.....

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by JACKSPADE on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 7:41am

Tee wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 7:35am:

OMD wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 7:09am:

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 6:07am:
People wouldn't care about Hefner, but at the same time, it is still his right.

I'm sure some guys would jump into it as well if there weren't any law, and some have already jumped into it as you mentioned. But at least this guy is staying within the law, so we should give him credit for that.

If we don't know any 20-25 year old ladies, then we don't need to help. But then we shouldn't attack someone who isn't here for trouble, but seeking an "adult" wife.


I was willing to help him earlier, but, he's based all his love on young age...that is a problem.  Look at his past experiences, young age left him.  Isn't that a sign? That is asking for trouble.  What ever happened to just finding love normally like everyone else not based everything on age?  Do I get nervous around people like him, to be honest yes I do.  What gets me most now is his religious preaching to us in regards to justify the means of loving the young in a non-sexual way.  William Kelley tried to support him as well, what happened?  He accused William of judging him.


if your are here to peach your religion among us, please don't waste your time! I also don't want to judge your religion is better than mind or mind is better than you.   This is very personal and it is my choice...not your.....Please go away...to peach somewhere else.....


Tee are you talking to me or Christianbachelor?? If you are not you are quoting the wrong post.LOL

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by JSEA on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 9:15am
Ok, originally I was just trying to point out the obvious, and hopefully save the guy some undue suffering. Let's be honest with ourselves, ChristianBachelor fits the "old farang that falls in love with a young Thai girl who doesn't give a sheeeit about him (and then possibly ends up committing suicide)" stereotype PERFECTLY. I was trying to give him some advice and tell him to look for someone closer to his own age because he might end up being happy, rather than getting hurt again, but now I'm getting called out for being a jerk, and having the phucking bible quoted at me to justify knocking up 12 year old girls, and...

I'm disgusted. JACKSPADE you were totally right.

Let's take a look at the crazy in this thread:

Like I just said, he's using the bible to justify marrying/sleeping with (who really believes it was just sleeping in the bible?) 12, 13, and 16 year old girls. He's also doing the typical crazy Christian thing and contradicting himself.

On an earlier post he says:

wrote on 6th Nov, 2010 at 5:16am:
5.  I am very lonely right now.  I would like to meet a really beautiful woman to LOVE ME, but not one to "sex me."  I am not interested in sex, I am interested in love.


Now, in this thread he is saying:


wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 6:56am:
In Asia, as well as Christianity and all decent societies, whether a woman has been with a man previously is an important issue.

...

When a man goes with an older woman, she often has children.

...

When a man goes with an older woman, she is often jaded by past relationships and enters those relationships with baggage.

...

Usually, women over 30 have already been compromised.


If he's not in it for sex, why does he care so much about "whether a woman has been with a man previously"???

I saved the best for last:


wrote on 3rd Nov, 2010 at 4:57am:
I'd also like to meet some girls in the mean time to help me to forget my ex, as I have not been with any woman since we become a couple 3 years ago, and had not been dating for quite awhile before I met her.


We all know what he means when he says "...I have not been with any woman since..." he's talking about sex again. He was obviously with his wife (living with her, but maybe not having sex), so this can only mean he hasn't had sex with his wife, and/or other women in 3 years...which in turn implies he's looking for sex!

In addition the above, he accuses us of judging him. WTF does he think he's doing when he says that women over 30 have been "compromised"? or have "baggage"? Also, what's with all the Christian proselytizing? Does he not realize that Laos is a primarily Buddhist country, like Thailand where he supposedly lives? In my opinion he's the one who needs to stop judging people.

With all these contradictions, and judgmental opinions does he really sound like a trustworthy person that would be good marriage material? If I had a daughter I wouldn't want him anywhere near her.

Anyway, that's all I'm gonna say. I'll just ignore his posts from now on since now they just piss me off.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by Tee on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 9:40am

OMD wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 7:41am:

Tee wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 7:35am:

OMD wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 7:09am:

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 6:07am:
People wouldn't care about Hefner, but at the same time, it is still his right.

I'm sure some guys would jump into it as well if there weren't any law, and some have already jumped into it as you mentioned. But at least this guy is staying within the law, so we should give him credit for that.

If we don't know any 20-25 year old ladies, then we don't need to help. But then we shouldn't attack someone who isn't here for trouble, but seeking an "adult" wife.


I was willing to help him earlier, but, he's based all his love on young age...that is a problem.  Look at his past experiences, young age left him.  Isn't that a sign? That is asking for trouble.  What ever happened to just finding love normally like everyone else not based everything on age?  Do I get nervous around people like him, to be honest yes I do.  What gets me most now is his religious preaching to us in regards to justify the means of loving the young in a non-sexual way.  William Kelley tried to support him as well, what happened?  He accused William of judging him.


if your are here to peach your religion among us, please don't waste your time! I also don't want to judge your religion is better than mind or mind is better than you.   This is very personal and it is my choice...not your.....Please go away...to peach somewhere else.....


Tee are you talking to me or Christianbachelor?? If you are not you are quoting the wrong post.LOL

I am sorry, it's to him..........

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by Lao Pride Administrator on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 9:42am
I have removed ChristianBachelor from the forum.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by JSEA on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 10:19am
Wow, that was unexpected.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by Larb Dip on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 10:46am

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 9:42am:
I have removed ChristianBachelor from the forum.


Why?

It may sound like he has a few loose wires, but he too, like everybody else on here, has opinions. This is a watershed moment for sure.

Look, don't misunderstand me here, I think the guy should either be shot or hung if he really is a child molester. (ChristianBachelor, if you're not, don't take that last statement to heart. I'm only speaking hyperthetically) ;)

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by Larb Dip on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 10:49am

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 12:40am:
Sorry folks, but ChristianBachelor is a genuine nice guy once you get to know him. He loves Laos just as much as you all do, and it has been brought to my attention he doesn't like to have bricks thrown at him.

Therefore, I kindly ask that everyone make him feel warm and welcome and be part of our Lao Pride community. Thanks.


Judging from the eulogy you recently preached on his behalf: I think all this ganging up is swaying you too much Valuck.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by JSEA on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 11:00am
I think he shot himself in the foot when he brought up bible verses to justify marrying/impregnating 12 year old girls. That's probably what changed Admin's mind. I know I stopped giving him the benefit of the doubt after that.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by Lao Pride Administrator on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 11:02am
Sorry but my name is not Valuck.

It has been done and dusted and he will no longer be part of our forum. I wish him all the best, and I hope he finds himself a lovely and loyal wife.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by Larb Dip on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 11:29am

JSEA wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 11:00am:
I think he shot himself in the foot when he brought up bible verses to justify marrying/impregnating 12 year old girls. That's probably what changed Admin's mind. I know I stopped giving him the benefit of the doubt after that.


Lets talk about religion why don't we?

Can ANYBODY please explain to me why they have all these different sects? This 'phenomenon' is not just limited to just the major religions either. Even pagan faiths have different 'versions'.

I have already read the New Testament in full. I have just finished reading Exodus. I have an 'interest' in both Christianity and Buddhism. I have yet to read ANY Buddhist text. Some of the teachings in the Bible are very inspiring, I must admit.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by JSEA on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 12:21pm
I'd rather not. Religion and politics you know :D

That being said definitely read about Buddhism. The more philosophical stuff is pretty interesting. It also seems to create less hate in this world than other religions.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by Old Man on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 6:51pm

wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 6:18am:
When God the Father brought about the virgin birth, Mary was 12 (or early 13) when she was given the Christchild to carry via the immaculate conception.

When David grew old a beautiful 16 year old was brought in to lie with David, to keep him warm, without sexual relations.  1 Kings 1:2-4.


The great Indian spiritual leader, Mahatma Ghandi, used to sleep with three naked teenage girls every night so he could test his self discipline and abstinence.

Well, that was his story...... ;D

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by Larb Dip on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 11:11pm
Did he pass the test? ;D

Is he human like the rest of us?

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by JACKSPADE on 4th Apr, 2011 at 12:36am

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 9:42am:
I have removed ChristianBachelor from the forum.


I applaud you.  Doesn't matter what anyone says, you made the right decision.  

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by Lao Lum Democratic on 4th Apr, 2011 at 3:45am
I think he was just a fake member who try to spam LP forum.
:D :o

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by JACKSPADE on 4th Apr, 2011 at 5:20am

llX wrote on 4th Apr, 2011 at 3:45am:
I think he was just a fake member who try to spam LP forum.
:D :o


As much as I would like to believe you, I highly doubt it.  He's a very confused and unstable person.  It's good he got called out, because he's a danger to children and society as a whole.  There are many predators out there that's lurking/targeting our young (he showed all the signs).  The admin did her part, I'm glad she did.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by William Kelley on 4th Apr, 2011 at 5:33am

OMD wrote on 4th Apr, 2011 at 5:20am:

llX wrote on 4th Apr, 2011 at 3:45am:
I think he was just a fake member who try to spam LP forum.
:D :o


As much as I would like to believe you, I highly doubt it.  He's a very confused and unstable person.  It's good he got called out, because he's a danger to children and society as a whole.  There are many predators out there that's lurking/targeting our young (he showed all the signs).  The admin did her part, I'm glad she did.


I agree with you JACKOFSPADE. I am a Christian, but he made my skin crawl. I don't believe he had any good intentions. The Admin asked that we give him a chance and I tried, but you see how that turned out.

Being a Christian is a personal journey for me, I also study the teachings of Buddha; it's more of a quest to discover the goodness in me and my fellow humans. It's not something I throw in other people's faces, or use to excuse my actions.

I believe he was hiding behind the guise of faith to justify evil actions or thoughts. Not the type of person I feel comfortable around, to say the least.

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by Old Man on 4th Apr, 2011 at 9:36pm
So was he banned, or what?

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by Larb Dip on 4th Apr, 2011 at 11:39pm
What's stopping him from assuming another alter ego?

I'm sure he'll be back. ;D

Title: Re: Laos wife
Post by Lao Democratic on 5th Apr, 2011 at 1:57am

wrote on 4th Apr, 2011 at 9:36pm:
So was he banned, or what?


I think he's ban. But he usually don't come here much anyway.
::) :o

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