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Message started by Canguy on 28th Jul, 2013 at 7:26am

Title: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by Canguy on 28th Jul, 2013 at 7:26am
You always read that it is illegal for a non Laotian man to have sex with a Laotian woman.  Doesn't matter whether its pay or girlfriend.

What actually happens if you get caught?

How diligent are they enforcing it?  Is it just wink wink nudge nudge or are they really out to get you?

I read that there are some obvious places where people meet and leave for physical pleasure.  Surely the police know about these places.

A Laotian friend told me that it is no problem, but he hasn't lived there for some time.

Does anybody actually know of a situation where someone was caught?

Thanks.

Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by Admin Saovaluck on 28th Jul, 2013 at 11:11am
According to the law in Laos (if one choose to take it seriously), it is illegal for a foreigner to stay in the same room with a Lao woman overnight if you can't prove that the both of you are married.

I've heard of a foreigner in Vientiane get fined as much as $5,000 many years ago, but I haven't heard of anyone being sent to jail as a result of sleeping or staying with a Lao woman.

You can do it at your own peril. Generally, the authorities are not out to get you but you just never know. Sometimes a local tuk tuk driver might not like you, or he thinks you have money just because you're a foreigner, and he might lead the police to your room to get his share of the dividend.

Situations like this are examples where you have to be alert in a corrupt society as Laos.

Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by ba dac on 28th Jul, 2013 at 1:36pm
You guys wann know between a smart communist and a dumb communist ? the smart one like the one in China get
a taste of capitalist like its make alot of money and sent their kids to a foreign country to get educated.The dumb one sent their kids to China to get educated. lol .
Legalize prostitution !!!  its a win win  ;D

Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by peterpan on 28th Jul, 2013 at 1:39pm
Tuk tuk driver!

A grassroots campaign for the eradication of illegal cuddling of same or opposite sex. ;D

Thai tuk tuk driver only took me to an expensive restaurant once.

Scary, the tuk tuk.  :D ;D ;D ;D.

Thanks for the infor.

Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by peterpan on 28th Jul, 2013 at 1:43pm
Sending kids to get education in China is the sign of dummy comma? I don't think so. They are more , much more smart. Go to place where easy money can be got.



ba dac wrote on 28th Jul, 2013 at 1:36pm:
You guys wann know between a smart communist and a dumb communist ? the smart one like the one in China get
a taste of capitalist like its make alot of money and sent their kids to a foreign country to get educated.The dumb one sent their kids to China to get educated. lol .
Legalize prostitution !!!  its a win win  ;D


Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by ba dac on 28th Jul, 2013 at 2:37pm

peterpan wrote on 28th Jul, 2013 at 1:43pm:
Sending kids to get education in China is the sign of dummy comma? I don't think so. They are more , much more smart. Go to place where easy money can be got.



ba dac wrote on 28th Jul, 2013 at 1:36pm:
You guys wann know between a smart communist and a dumb communist ? the smart one like the one in China get
a taste of capitalist like its make alot of money and sent their kids to a foreign country to get educated.The dumb one sent their kids to China to get educated. lol .
Legalize prostitution !!!  its a win win  ;D


Yes you are correct.Its only that of my personal opinion
I have a friend who is an academic advisor at a university.She see alot of student coming from China and India .I'm pretty sure other places too.My point is that
the school here let people think and open their minds to
everything including science and politics.I"m not in anyway
bashing China. You know that plane that just crash in San Francisco ? Majority of those kids that was on that flight were Chinese.They paid around $5000 us dollar just to a summer class in the university here.That my friends say alot . If you wanna join the communist party I'm pretty sure
there are good school for them . ;)

Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by peterpan on 28th Jul, 2013 at 2:46pm
If I had a choice in university, I would choose the one offering open science and politics and teaching how to crack others wallets.  :laugh1

Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by Canguy on 29th Jul, 2013 at 8:56am
Thank you for your response Ms Administrator

You say " stay in the same room with a Lao woman overnight "...  would I be correct in assuming that it is illegal just to be alone in a room with someone in an intimate setting even though it isn't overnight?

To others who have responded, could I ask you in a friendly way to stay on topic as I am most interested in this.

Thank you.

Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by Admin Saovaluck on 29th Jul, 2013 at 9:53am
Generally speaking, it is illegal to be alone with a Lao woman in a room for sexual activities anytime, day or night but night time is more dangerous because that's when the police can come knocking on your door to do checks.

Usually they don't check during the day time because you are allowed to have a friend visit your room, and you could argue that she is your friend.

The bottom line is "Non-marital sexual relationships between Lao citizens and foreigners are not permitted under Lao law" and I disagree with this ridiculous law. Go out and find murderers and thieves, and leave the good people alone the way they want to live their lives.

Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by peterpan on 29th Jul, 2013 at 11:15am
"Non-marital sexual relationships between Lao citizens and foreigners are not permitted under Lao law"

As you said, if both parties are Lao citizens , it is OK?

Some years ago here, a couple watched semi-porn video at home, got caught and got fined. With public angry on internet, relevant department said sorry and returned fine.

There are funny stories for commie-oriented places. ;D

Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by peterpan on 29th Jul, 2013 at 11:16am
Sorry for my drifting away. Too much lao beer.


Canguy wrote on 29th Jul, 2013 at 8:56am:
Thank you for your response Ms Administrator

You say " stay in the same room with a Lao woman overnight "...  would I be correct in assuming that it is illegal just to be alone in a room with someone in an intimate setting even though it isn't overnight?

To others who have responded, could I ask you in a friendly way to stay on topic as I am most interested in this.

Thank you.


Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by ba dac on 29th Jul, 2013 at 12:17pm

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 29th Jul, 2013 at 9:53am:
Generally speaking, it is illegal to be alone with a Lao woman in a room for sexual activities anytime, day or night but night time is more dangerous because that's when the police can come knocking on your door to do checks.

Usually they don't check during the day time because you are allowed to have a friend visit your room, and you could argue that she is your friend.

The bottom line is "Non-marital sexual relationships between Lao citizens and foreigners are not permitted under Lao law" and I disagree with this ridiculous law. Go out and find murderers and thieves, and leave the good people alone the way they want to live their lives.

:applause  Well said ! Don't they have better things to do
then playing moral cop.Comeon man, what happen between
a man and woman thats their business.No wonder that country is so backward. Thank you Admin.

Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by Admin Saovaluck on 29th Jul, 2013 at 1:14pm

peterpan wrote on 29th Jul, 2013 at 11:15am:
As you said, if both parties are Lao citizens , it is OK?


I know two local couples who live together, and they are not married. The authorities tend to be lenient because they are in their prime in their 50's, and they are divorced from a previous relationship.

If you're young, not married and living together, the whole village will look down on you and your parents. That's why Lao citizens tend to marry at a young age so they can be together.

Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by ba dac on 29th Jul, 2013 at 1:47pm

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 29th Jul, 2013 at 1:14pm:

peterpan wrote on 29th Jul, 2013 at 11:15am:
As you said, if both parties are Lao citizens , it is OK?


I know two local couples who live together, and they are not married. The authorities tend to be lenient because they are in their prime in their 50's, and they are divorced from a previous relationship.

If you're young, not married and living together, the whole village will look down on you and your parents. That's why Lao citizens tend to marry at a young age so they can be together.


Oh getting married just to be together as first love not good
idea.I realize that nobody can see what the future hold,but
if you're young and in love.Those 2 can be very dangerous.
We all know when you're young you tend to make choices
that's not always correct.But when you married that's a whole different ball game.You just can break up and ok you
go your way and i'll go mine.Now throw kids into the mix. ;D
Does Laos have a child support law Admin ? Over here they
throw people in jail if you don't support them til they're 18 yrs old.

Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by peterpan on 29th Jul, 2013 at 2:12pm

ba dac wrote on 29th Jul, 2013 at 1:47pm:

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 29th Jul, 2013 at 1:14pm:

peterpan wrote on 29th Jul, 2013 at 11:15am:
As you said, if both parties are Lao citizens , it is OK?


I know two local couples who live together, and they are not married. The authorities tend to be lenient because they are in their prime in their 50's, and they are divorced from a previous relationship.

If you're young, not married and living together, the whole village will look down on you and your parents. That's why Lao citizens tend to marry at a young age so they can be together.


Oh getting married just to be together as first love not good
idea.I realize that nobody can see what the future hold,but
if you're young and in love.Those 2 can be very dangerous.
We all know when you're young you tend to make choices
that's not always correct.But when you married that's a whole different ball game.You just can break up and ok you
go your way and i'll go mine.Now throw kids into the mix. ;D
Does Laos have a child support law Admin ? Over here they
throw people in jail if you don't support them til they're 18 yrs old.



How many loves you will idle   away before you get married? ;D

Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by ba dac on 29th Jul, 2013 at 3:05pm
I think of it as test driving a car before you buy   ;)
You gonna put alot of money into that car.You wanna make
sure she drive good and will take care of ya. ;D

Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by peterpan on 30th Jul, 2013 at 10:10am

ba dac wrote on 29th Jul, 2013 at 3:05pm:
I think of it as test driving a car before you buy   ;)
You gonna put alot of money into that car.You wanna make
sure she drive good and will take care of ya. ;D



:hug :hug :hug

Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by Canguy on 30th Jul, 2013 at 10:58am

peterpan wrote on 29th Jul, 2013 at 11:16am:
Sorry for my drifting away. Too much lao beer.


Canguy wrote on 29th Jul, 2013 at 8:56am:
Thank you for your response Ms Administrator

You say " stay in the same room with a Lao woman overnight "...  would I be correct in assuming that it is illegal just to be alone in a room with someone in an intimate setting even though it isn't overnight?

To others who have responded, could I ask you in a friendly way to stay on topic as I am most interested in this.

Thank you.



Thanks Peter pan - although usually I don't drink much, I can relate!

Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by Canguy on 30th Jul, 2013 at 11:02am

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 29th Jul, 2013 at 9:53am:
Generally speaking, it is illegal to be alone with a Lao woman in a room for sexual activities anytime, day or night but night time is more dangerous because that's when the police can come knocking on your door to do checks.

Usually they don't check during the day time because you are allowed to have a friend visit your room, and you could argue that she is your friend.

The bottom line is "Non-marital sexual relationships between Lao citizens and foreigners are not permitted under Lao law" and I disagree with this ridiculous law. Go out and find murderers and thieves, and leave the good people alone the way they want to live their lives.


Merci encore une fois - thanks again.

Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by ba dac on 30th Jul, 2013 at 3:50pm

peterpan wrote on 30th Jul, 2013 at 10:10am:

ba dac wrote on 29th Jul, 2013 at 3:05pm:
I think of it as test driving a car before you buy   ;)
You gonna put alot of money into that car.You wanna make
sure she drive good and will take care of ya. ;D



:hug :hug :hug


I belive it should go both way.Don't want to offend any of our female member  ;)  Its easier for woman though.How
many men would turn down a woman , unless he's gay  ::)

Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by Sparky on 3rd Aug, 2013 at 10:25pm
I used to work with a guy 13 years ago and he dated like 60 plus girlfriends over the course of his life time.  By now he probably been with 100 womans, LOL.  I don't think he will get marry any time soon, LOL. 

Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by ba dac on 4th Aug, 2013 at 12:47pm

Sparky wrote on 3rd Aug, 2013 at 10:25pm:
I used to work with a guy 13 years ago and he dated like 60 plus girlfriends over the course of his life time.  By now he probably been with 100 womans, LOL.  I don't think he will get marry any time soon, LOL. 

Holy cow bat man ! He must have alot of money and time.

Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by peterpan on 4th Aug, 2013 at 7:30pm

Sparky wrote on 3rd Aug, 2013 at 10:25pm:
I used to work with a guy 13 years ago and he dated like 60 plus girlfriends over the course of his life time.  By now he probably been with 100 womans, LOL.  I don't think he will get marry any time soon, LOL. 


What a wonderful life!

Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by ba dac on 5th Aug, 2013 at 11:22am
smart guy i might need to do that  ;D

Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by peterpan on 5th Aug, 2013 at 4:00pm
I personally think if you want to copy that, you need to build up your body greatly. six packs wont work, you need 12 packs.  :laugh1 :laugh1 :laugh1 :laugh1


ba dac wrote on 5th Aug, 2013 at 11:22am:
smart guy i might need to do that  ;D


Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by ba dac on 5th Aug, 2013 at 4:23pm

peterpan wrote on 5th Aug, 2013 at 4:00pm:
I personally think if you want to copy that, you need to build up your body greatly. six packs wont work, you need 12 packs.  :laugh1 :laugh1 :laugh1 :laugh1


ba dac wrote on 5th Aug, 2013 at 11:22am:
smart guy i might need to do that  ;D


Or have a great sense of humore and have alot of money  ::)

Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by Lao-Ding on 2nd Jul, 2014 at 4:09pm

ba dac wrote on 28th Jul, 2013 at 1:36pm:
You guys wann know between a smart communist and a dumb communist ? the smart one like the one in China get
a taste of capitalist like its make alot of money and sent their kids to a foreign country to get educated.The dumb one sent their kids to China to get educated.

Actually I think it's dumb to waste 30 K a year on a university in the States when you can go to a good Uni in China for 3k! The Chinese kids that go abroad are often the ones that couldn't hack the Gaokao in China. Higher ed. is all about the bucks now.  :'(

Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by peterpan on 2nd Jul, 2014 at 4:16pm
Most chinese young studying in USA are smart. Gao Kao is a f...king system. I still get nightmare about it. I took it 24 years ago.  :(


Lao-Ding wrote on 2nd Jul, 2014 at 4:09pm:

ba dac wrote on 28th Jul, 2013 at 1:36pm:
You guys wann know between a smart communist and a dumb communist ? the smart one like the one in China get
a taste of capitalist like its make alot of money and sent their kids to a foreign country to get educated.The dumb one sent their kids to China to get educated.

Actually I think it's dumb to waste 30 K a year on a university in the States when you can go to a good Uni in China for 3k! The Chinese kids that go abroad are often the ones that couldn't hack the Gaokao in China. Higher ed. is all about the bucks now.  :'(


Title: Re: Sex between a Laotian and Non Laotian- what is the real situation
Post by peterpan on 2nd Jul, 2014 at 4:24pm
You are chinese? you put chinese words as your nickname.

Amazing


Lao-Ding wrote on 2nd Jul, 2014 at 4:09pm:

ba dac wrote on 28th Jul, 2013 at 1:36pm:
You guys wann know between a smart communist and a dumb communist ? the smart one like the one in China get
a taste of capitalist like its make alot of money and sent their kids to a foreign country to get educated.The dumb one sent their kids to China to get educated.

Actually I think it's dumb to waste 30 K a year on a university in the States when you can go to a good Uni in China for 3k! The Chinese kids that go abroad are often the ones that couldn't hack the Gaokao in China. Higher ed. is all about the bucks now.  :'(


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