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Reply #30 - 3rd Apr, 2011 at 7:16am
 
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In Asia, as well as Christianity and all decent societies, whether a woman has been with a man previously is an important issue.

In some countries, and cultures within Asia, girls marry off  very young.

In many countries, hawks from China, Korea, etc. get them very young and do bad things before they get old enough to establish their new life.

In many countries of Asia, the privileged classes merely close their eyes to other countrymen of assorted cultures.

I don't know the answers, but I know that societies, as they are today, are not solving much.

When a man goes for an older woman, she often has been with other men.

When a man goes with an older woman, she often has children.

When a man goes with an older woman, she is often jaded by past relationships and enters those relationships with baggage.

From the Bible, I remind that Timothy was commissioned to train elders before he, himself, was old enough to be an elder.

Timothy was also commanded to NOT allow anybody look down on his youth, but to study to show himself a workman who did not need to be ashamed.

We are going down to the lowest common denominator far far too often.

We are not to encourage "people swapping" (wives swapping husbands and vice versa).  So many men find a beautiful woman, who is not in original condition (and vice versa), and we want him, or her.   But we do not fight with all of our might to restore her to the love of her youth.  (and vice versa).  We are not to be changing people, we are to find one, and keep that one.  We are not 7-11's of flesh, we are people, who are to be holy and pure.

Usually, women over 30 have already been compromised.

When we find a woman who has left the partner of her youth, we should not lure her towards us, we should do all in our power to restore her to the partner of her youth.

Everything is whacked.  Everything is out of alignment.

Our societies need holiness, godliness, and restoration to fellowship with our God


You seriously need to see a psychiatrist.  He/she is the only one that can be able to help you not us or this forum.  Please don't preach in this forum.  I was once a Baptist(Christian).  There's nothing lovable about it.  There's so much violence in this world because of Christianity/Catholicism/Islam.  People are always using it as an excuse to do harm to this world.  Of all the religion, I believe Buddhism is much more peaceful.
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Reply #31 - 3rd Apr, 2011 at 7:35am
 
OMD wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 7:09am:
Admin Saovaluck wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 6:07am:
People wouldn't care about Hefner, but at the same time, it is still his right.

I'm sure some guys would jump into it as well if there weren't any law, and some have already jumped into it as you mentioned. But at least this guy is staying within the law, so we should give him credit for that.

If we don't know any 20-25 year old ladies, then we don't need to help. But then we shouldn't attack someone who isn't here for trouble, but seeking an "adult" wife.


I was willing to help him earlier, but, he's based all his love on young age...that is a problem.  Look at his past experiences, young age left him.  Isn't that a sign? That is asking for trouble.  What ever happened to just finding love normally like everyone else not based everything on age?  Do I get nervous around people like him, to be honest yes I do.  What gets me most now is his religious preaching to us in regards to justify the means of loving the young in a non-sexual way.  William Kelley tried to support him as well, what happened?  He accused William of judging him.


if your are here to peach your religion among us, please don't waste your time! I also don't want to judge your religion is better than mind or mind is better than you.   This is very personal and it is my choice...not your.....Please go away...to peach somewhere else.....
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Reply #32 - 3rd Apr, 2011 at 7:41am
 
Tee wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 7:35am:
OMD wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 7:09am:
Admin Saovaluck wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 6:07am:
People wouldn't care about Hefner, but at the same time, it is still his right.

I'm sure some guys would jump into it as well if there weren't any law, and some have already jumped into it as you mentioned. But at least this guy is staying within the law, so we should give him credit for that.

If we don't know any 20-25 year old ladies, then we don't need to help. But then we shouldn't attack someone who isn't here for trouble, but seeking an "adult" wife.


I was willing to help him earlier, but, he's based all his love on young age...that is a problem.  Look at his past experiences, young age left him.  Isn't that a sign? That is asking for trouble.  What ever happened to just finding love normally like everyone else not based everything on age?  Do I get nervous around people like him, to be honest yes I do.  What gets me most now is his religious preaching to us in regards to justify the means of loving the young in a non-sexual way.  William Kelley tried to support him as well, what happened?  He accused William of judging him.


if your are here to peach your religion among us, please don't waste your time! I also don't want to judge your religion is better than mind or mind is better than you.   This is very personal and it is my choice...not your.....Please go away...to peach somewhere else.....


Tee are you talking to me or Christianbachelor?? If you are not you are quoting the wrong post.LOL
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Reply #33 - 3rd Apr, 2011 at 9:15am
 
Ok, originally I was just trying to point out the obvious, and hopefully save the guy some undue suffering. Let's be honest with ourselves, ChristianBachelor fits the "old farang that falls in love with a young Thai girl who doesn't give a sheeeit about him (and then possibly ends up committing suicide)" stereotype PERFECTLY. I was trying to give him some advice and tell him to look for someone closer to his own age because he might end up being happy, rather than getting hurt again, but now I'm getting called out for being a jerk, and having the phucking bible quoted at me to justify knocking up 12 year old girls, and...

I'm disgusted. JACKSPADE you were totally right.

Let's take a look at the crazy in this thread:

Like I just said, he's using the bible to justify marrying/sleeping with (who really believes it was just sleeping in the bible?) 12, 13, and 16 year old girls. He's also doing the typical crazy Christian thing and contradicting himself.

On an earlier post he says:
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5.  I am very lonely right now.  I would like to meet a really beautiful woman to LOVE ME, but not one to "sex me."  I am not interested in sex, I am interested in love.


Now, in this thread he is saying:

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In Asia, as well as Christianity and all decent societies, whether a woman has been with a man previously is an important issue.

...

When a man goes with an older woman, she often has children.

...

When a man goes with an older woman, she is often jaded by past relationships and enters those relationships with baggage.

...

Usually, women over 30 have already been compromised.



If he's not in it for sex, why does he care so much about "whether a woman has been with a man previously"???

I saved the best for last:

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I'd also like to meet some girls in the mean time to help me to forget my ex, as I have not been with any woman since we become a couple 3 years ago, and had not been dating for quite awhile before I met her.


We all know what he means when he says "...I have not been with any woman since..." he's talking about sex again. He was obviously with his wife (living with her, but maybe not having sex), so this can only mean he hasn't had sex with his wife, and/or other women in 3 years...which in turn implies he's looking for sex!

In addition the above, he accuses us of judging him. WTF does he think he's doing when he says that women over 30 have been "compromised"? or have "baggage"? Also, what's with all the Christian proselytizing? Does he not realize that Laos is a primarily Buddhist country, like Thailand where he supposedly lives? In my opinion he's the one who needs to stop judging people.

With all these contradictions, and judgmental opinions does he really sound like a trustworthy person that would be good marriage material? If I had a daughter I wouldn't want him anywhere near her.

Anyway, that's all I'm gonna say. I'll just ignore his posts from now on since now they just piss me off.
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Reply #34 - 3rd Apr, 2011 at 9:40am
 
OMD wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 7:41am:
Tee wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 7:35am:
OMD wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 7:09am:
Admin Saovaluck wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 6:07am:
People wouldn't care about Hefner, but at the same time, it is still his right.

I'm sure some guys would jump into it as well if there weren't any law, and some have already jumped into it as you mentioned. But at least this guy is staying within the law, so we should give him credit for that.

If we don't know any 20-25 year old ladies, then we don't need to help. But then we shouldn't attack someone who isn't here for trouble, but seeking an "adult" wife.


I was willing to help him earlier, but, he's based all his love on young age...that is a problem.  Look at his past experiences, young age left him.  Isn't that a sign? That is asking for trouble.  What ever happened to just finding love normally like everyone else not based everything on age?  Do I get nervous around people like him, to be honest yes I do.  What gets me most now is his religious preaching to us in regards to justify the means of loving the young in a non-sexual way.  William Kelley tried to support him as well, what happened?  He accused William of judging him.


if your are here to peach your religion among us, please don't waste your time! I also don't want to judge your religion is better than mind or mind is better than you.   This is very personal and it is my choice...not your.....Please go away...to peach somewhere else.....


Tee are you talking to me or Christianbachelor?? If you are not you are quoting the wrong post.LOL

I am sorry, it's to him..........
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Reply #36 - 3rd Apr, 2011 at 10:19am
 
Wow, that was unexpected.
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Reply #37 - 3rd Apr, 2011 at 10:46am
 
Admin Saovaluck wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 9:42am:
I have removed ChristianBachelor from the forum.


Why?

It may sound like he has a few loose wires, but he too, like everybody else on here, has opinions. This is a watershed moment for sure.

Look, don't misunderstand me here, I think the guy should either be shot or hung if he really is a child molester. (ChristianBachelor, if you're not, don't take that last statement to heart. I'm only speaking hyperthetically) Wink
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Reply #38 - 3rd Apr, 2011 at 10:49am
 
Admin Saovaluck wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 12:40am:
Sorry folks, but ChristianBachelor is a genuine nice guy once you get to know him. He loves Laos just as much as you all do, and it has been brought to my attention he doesn't like to have bricks thrown at him.

Therefore, I kindly ask that everyone make him feel warm and welcome and be part of our Lao Pride community. Thanks.


Judging from the eulogy you recently preached on his behalf: I think all this ganging up is swaying you too much Valuck.
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Reply #39 - 3rd Apr, 2011 at 11:00am
 
I think he shot himself in the foot when he brought up bible verses to justify marrying/impregnating 12 year old girls. That's probably what changed Admin's mind. I know I stopped giving him the benefit of the doubt after that.
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Reply #40 - 3rd Apr, 2011 at 11:02am
 
Sorry but my name is not Valuck.

It has been done and dusted and he will no longer be part of our forum. I wish him all the best, and I hope he finds himself a lovely and loyal wife.
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Reply #41 - 3rd Apr, 2011 at 11:29am
 
JSEA wrote on 3rd Apr, 2011 at 11:00am:
I think he shot himself in the foot when he brought up bible verses to justify marrying/impregnating 12 year old girls. That's probably what changed Admin's mind. I know I stopped giving him the benefit of the doubt after that.


Lets talk about religion why don't we?

Can ANYBODY please explain to me why they have all these different sects? This 'phenomenon' is not just limited to just the major religions either. Even pagan faiths have different 'versions'.

I have already read the New Testament in full. I have just finished reading Exodus. I have an 'interest' in both Christianity and Buddhism. I have yet to read ANY Buddhist text. Some of the teachings in the Bible are very inspiring, I must admit.
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Reply #42 - 3rd Apr, 2011 at 12:21pm
 
I'd rather not. Religion and politics you know Cheesy

That being said definitely read about Buddhism. The more philosophical stuff is pretty interesting. It also seems to create less hate in this world than other religions.
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When God the Father brought about the virgin birth, Mary was 12 (or early 13) when she was given the Christchild to carry via the immaculate conception.

When David grew old a beautiful 16 year old was brought in to lie with David, to keep him warm, without sexual relations.  1 Kings 1:2-4.



The great Indian spiritual leader, Mahatma Ghandi, used to sleep with three naked teenage girls every night so he could test his self discipline and abstinence.

Well, that was his story...... Grin
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Did he pass the test? Grin

Is he human like the rest of us?
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